Friday, July 20, 2012

Just Found Out! And kinda nervous now...

Just got the good news that I am pregnant! But there's a small problem...my husband is in the military and we are getting stationed overseas. Holy cow. I know that tons of other military wives are going through the same thing, probably, but its really scary. I don't know anyone where we are going and I can tell you that I don't speak the language (can't say which. You understand.). I'm hoping that this can maybe help someone else in my situation. Its definitely going to be an interesting experience. Here's what's happened so far:

I stopped taking my birth control last month so I honestly didn't expect anything to happen so fast. But then, two weeks ago, I started feeling nauseous (like that feeling you get when you are on a roller coaster and your stomach drops out from under you) and a little more tired. No period either, but that might have just been from going off birth control. When we were out with friends a few days ago, I said something that annoyed my husband so he poked me lightly in the stomach and that hurt a lot. It was weird... so I decided to take a test, just in case. I honestly was not expecting a plus sign! I thought "oh, this is probably just some weird side effect from stopping birth control. I should just take a test because these things are weird and I want to be able to tell the doctor 'yeah, I checked in x month and it was negative.'" But no. Plus sign. Twice! I didn't believe it so I went to the clinic on base and had them run a qualitative blood test as well.

I came into the clinic late, just as they were closing, to get my results. The nurse sits me down and says "Congratulations!" I almost regret my reaction ("No sh**?!"), because really, cursing  when you find out you're pregnant? Seems like bad form. She asked about how far along I thought I was. At the time, I thought "oh, between two and three weeks." But I've been thinking about it (and started reading pregnancy books) and that would be wrong. It would be more like 5 weeks! Wow. I have been pregnant for five weeks and I didn't even know! That would be because of how doctors count, which is from the first day of the last period apparently. I told the nurse that we are moving soon (in like a month and a half). She told me that I would have two options when it is time to have the baby. I can either fly back to the US the month before my due date and have the baby in the US or I have to have the baby in a foreign hospital. Oh. Well, I'm not going to fly back because I want my husband there so...yay. I get to have a baby in a hospital where I don't speak the language. I guess I better start learning?

That was a few days ago. Since I found out, I've been even more nauseous (I'm afraid that its worse just because I found out and I expect to be sicker) and more tired. That's kind of nerve wrecking because the movers are coming in just 5 weeks and I have a lot to do. Its incredible how much crud you can accumulate in 3 years... We'll see how I'm feeling next week! Hopefully this starts going away soon but if what I've read is true, this is going to get worse. Good luck to me lol